jueves, junio 19, 2008

dissapointments and other issues...

Recently, I received a really interesting "feedback" of a LC member. He was extremely pissed with me because I didn't response his greeting on facebook chat.

He argued that I didn't response to him because I consider myself better than other members in the organization, just because I joined the international team. Besides, he also said I should not forget that due to the work of LC members are doing, is because I am in this position. The rude message finished recommend me that ignoring them is the worst way to thank all of these people...

Well.. being honest, after receiving this message I got shocked!.. this is the first time I receive a message like this. I never ever I have considered myself better than anyone. More privileged with life yes, but never in a wrong way. Also, I keep in my mind (and heart) all the people have impacted to me deeply, with their example, experience and consistency.

I answered him inmmediately and, without interest of starting a debate of my personal life (also because it happened at 1am), I appreciated his feedback and get some reflections about this incident.
  • My life is exposed now more than a couple of years before.
  • This exposure demands people (and more people than before) waiting from me the same time that I used offer to them.
  • How do I ask them for privacy avoiding misunderstandings? Can I forget answer an e-mail, not answer a chat invitation, not give an advice...etc.. with no risk people mix this with my job role? Should I start to classify my contacts, should I contact only my friends, should be more polite with everyone all the time?
  • Are more people thinking the same about me?

Any way, people who really know me are people than never would judge me, before know what is happening. This is the kind of feedback that really matters to me... :)

9 comentarios:

A las 2:54 AM , Blogger pedroadrian ha dicho...

Hey I know how you feel, sometimes people just expect to much of you, specially when you are in the highest level of the organizations.

You should not worry, just be yourself and everything will be fine.

See you next weekend in Brussels :)

Pedro

 
A las 11:18 AM , Blogger CaritoLaiton ha dicho...

jajajajajajaj no lo puedo creer!!! esto sono a puro caso de Britney Spears atacada por Paparazzi! Ay laiticon! El mundo de la farandula ... una cosa que he aprendido en este oficio...calma y dar una vuelta a la oficina antes de responder un email. Lo demas pomadita y que resbale!

Abrazos...

PD. Contestame este post AI !juajuajuajua

 
A las 2:17 PM , Blogger Aleja Laiton ha dicho...

Ahi se lo respondo para que no diga que se me subio la fama a la cabeza!
Jajajaja

 
A las 9:02 PM , Blogger Ronald David Silva M. ha dicho...

jajajaja, demasiado chistoso eso Lala, vos asi quieras no puedes dejar de ser la vieja chevere buena gente que sabemos que eres.. asi que, dejemonos de vainas, si? jajaja

PD// Ay donde no contestess jajajaja

 
A las 12:26 PM , Blogger Ira ha dicho...

welcome to the world of political correctness. sorry but this goes along with the JD :). See you tomorrow!

 
A las 2:05 PM , Blogger Karla.Ticona ha dicho...

Just be easy on yourself!
Si ya le respondiste, chévere, en el futuro recuerda que la gente te va agradecer no sólo que respondas mails, sino las cosas que hagas/hiciste en el rol en el que estás. Si bien no es sencillo, como dice tu sis y como decimos acá, con mantequillita pasa mejor.

Besitos, fuerza y sigue siendo TU!
Cariños,
KT

 
A las 9:04 PM , Blogger Cristina ha dicho...

jejeje a veces la gente no puede comprender que mientras más responsabilidades tienes, más limitado tienes el tiempo y tienes que estructurarlo de tal manera que puedas hacer muchas cosas con tan solo 24 horas al día. Es normal que algunos no comprendan que uno no responde tan rápido no porque no quiere sino porque está haciendo millón de cosas a la vez. Pero bueno, lo más importante no es lo que digan los otros sino lo que pienses tú de ti misma. Interesante de vez en cuando escuchar lo que otros piensan de nosotros (te suena a la Ventana de JOhari? jejeje) pero no todo lo que nos dicen es necesariamente verdadero, así que tu fresca como dirían ustedes :D cántate a ti misma la cancion de Relax de Mika jejeje un abrazo!

 
A las 12:57 AM , Blogger Lorena Naar ha dicho...

OMG! Yo si decia que ya no me hablabas en gmail ni skype ni nada, eso fijo la fama se le subio a la cabeza, despues la vere en fiestas y cosas de esas locas de famosos :P jajajajajajajaja Esa es la actitud!

 
A las 2:15 AM , Blogger Aleja Laiton ha dicho...

hahaha,,, late, but I am here responding your comments!

Thanks for all!!!

For sure this is something of the job role! :P

Besitos!

 

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